OCTOBER 13, 2024
READ: 1 Samuel 20 (Focus vs. 35-42)
MEMORY VERSE
“Go in peace, for we have sworn friendship with each other in the name of the Lord.” 1 Samuel 20:42
BACKGROUND
You may have seen or heard some variation of this saying: “If you want to go fast, go alone. But if you want to go far, go together.” It’s a lovely thought, isn’t it? But is there any solid research to reassure us that these words are not just lovely, but true?
Yes! In fact, one such study by British and American researchers demonstrated that people estimated the size of mountains as significantly smaller if they were standing with someone else as opposed to when standing alone.
In other words, “social support” matters—so much so that it causes even the size of mountains to shrink in our minds. David found that kind of encouragement to be both lovely and true in his friendship with Jonathan.
The jealous anger of King Saul was like an insurmountable mountain in
David’s story causing him to fear for his very life (see 1 Samuel 19:9-18). Without some sort of support—in this case his closest friend—the story could have been drastically different.
But Jonathan, “grieved at his father’s shameful treatment of David” (20:34), stood by his friend. “Why should he be put to death?” he asked (v. 32). Their God-ordained friendship bolstered David, allowing him to become Israel’s king.
Our friendships matter. And when God is at the center of them, we can spur each other on to do greater things than we might imagine.
By: John Blase
INSIGHT
The friendship between David and Jonathan was one that withstood the test of time and circumstances. Jonathan risked his life to go against his own father, King Saul, in order to protect David (1 Samuel 20).
As the heir to Saul’s throne, Jonathan didn’t see David, his brother-in-law, as a political rival, but chose to forge a deep friendship with him (vv. 12-17). Jonathan encouraged David by assuring his safety and making a covenant to affirm David as king (23:17-18).
David promised Jonathan that even after his death, he would treat his family with love and unfailing kindness (20:14-17, 42). After Jonathan died in battle (31:1-2), David ordered the people of Judah to remember Jonathan as their hero in a national song (2 Samuel 1:17-27).
David also honored this friendship and took care of Jonathan’s disabled son, Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9).
By: K. T. Sim
APPLICATION
Where are you finding your social support? Who can you support with your friendship?
PR’s RE-EMPHASIS (From Post)
“Our friendships matter.”
PR’s (PASTOR RICHARD) TAKE
“…not only do too many think they can manage life by themselves, but even worse they have same belief when it comes to their faith…When it comes to their relationship with God they say: “I don’t need anyone’s help. I can relate to Him all on my own (paraphrased)
…While it is most definitely the case that each of us comes before God through faith in Christ entirely on our own, we nonetheless experience the greatest measure of spiritual significance when we link our faith with others in community.“ Doug Dortch
“A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken”.
Ecclesiastes 4:12-13
PRAYER
‘Thank You, Father, for those You’ve placed in my life who’ve kept the mountains in perspective.”
TODAY’S HYMN/WORSHIP/PRAISE/GOSPEL SONG
“HELP US TO HELP EACH OTHER”
Help us to help each other, Lord,
Each other’s cross to bear;
Let each his friendly aid afford,
And feel another’s care.
Up into Thee, our living head,
Let us in all things grow,
And by Thy sacrifice be led
The fruits of love to show.
Touched by the lodestone of Thy love
Let all our hearts agree;
And ever towards each other move,
And ever move towards Thee.
This is the bond of perfectness,
Thy spotless charity.
O let us still, we pray, possess
The mind that was in Thee.
READING THROUGH THE BIBLE THIS YEAR (DAILY)
1 CORINTHIANS 10
